The Alchemist
-by Paulo Coelho
The Physical
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The Philosophical
Perspectives
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The Philosophical
Perspectives
Not Mere Mounds of Mud - What lessons lie buried in Ant Hills :
While the world now, with high rise bridges and skyscrapers, struggles to uphold basic civic order; the humble anthill hides with it lessons for civilizational progress.
Without any scope of an ariel view, how do ants manage to build such architectural designs? It's the work they do underground which matters. The inside of an anthill opens up like a fantasy world, with an astonishing network of interconnected tunnels and chambers. It's not one deep dark hole, but has separate chambers for the Queen Ant, worker ants, food storage, etc. , with channels for air and water circulation, all within a seemingly tiny space.
Lesson#1 - Space management is not a matter of concern, it's the cornerstone of creation in Nature. These intricacies underneath lead to the outward impressive appearance. Lesson #2 - The devil is the detail. Focus on the details and the overall outcome will be magical.
Also, compare the size of the ants with the height of their abode. Such (comparatively) gigantic structures are required to withstand the vagaries of Nature. How do these tiny things move about and scale up and down these anthills? A busy schedule brings fitness, which in turn brings swiftness and agility. Being a coach potato is not an option for ants, which ensure that no height or width is enough to them tire out. Lesson #3.
And the material to build such huge formations? The mud scooped out to build underground chambers doubles up as material for rising the fort around.
Lesson #4 - Recycling, Best of Waste are not media trends. They are facts of Nature.
What makes building and maintainece of such structure possible? Hardwork and discipline. A military-like life and routine is what makes these minute creatures capable of building such marvelous colonies. Focused, goal-oriented, tirelessly, fixed mind are not mere word-salds to be heard from Motivational speakers; these qualities are the building blocks of a thriving Life. That's Lesson #5.
Ever observed the movement of ants? How soldier - esque are their movements! Not one out alignment, no collision, no mad rush. The laws of maintaining such traffic is inbuilt within each ant - it's their own internal instincts which promote such behaviour, rather than forced external fines and punishments. Lesson#6. Nature is calm and smooth-functioning; it's the most-advanced human mind who brings chaos.
And at the end, how long do these structures last? Not forever, surely. Can they withstand all forms of rains, storms and human interference? The ant hill is too fragile to withstand all of these but what stands strong in all conditions is the Will- Power of the ants. Hail or Wind, Rain or Shine, they march on, undaunted, to build and rebuild their colonies, over and over again, without the least fatigue or slackness. Boredom, despair, lack of motivation are not accountable factors when it's the question of survival, of Life. Lesson #7 .
So, the next time you are about to casually stomp over one of these marvels of Nature, pause for a second and think about all the hardwork and intelligence that they embody. Kneel down and observe the beauty and diligence of its inhabitants. Reflect on these observations, and the Laws and Mysteries of Nature unravel themselves to you.
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1.
The one to be my Husband ...
This is the kind I crave
Like the Sarva Shreshtha Pati ...
ShivShankara Mahadev
2.
The Adi Purusha who is
The epitome of Divine Masculine
Far from a coward and effeminate
Not arrogant, narcissist or vain
3.
Usullied by negativity
As toxic-resistant as Neelakanth
Simple, humble and decent
As benevolent as Bholenath
4.
That firmly controlled Adiyogi
Who reduced Cupid to ashes
A Celibate I claim sole rights on
Pure, Loyal and Monogamous
5.
The Ardhnarishwar for whom
Wife is Ardhangini, Better Half
NOT item, chick or babes
A mere trophy or show-off
6.
That Lord Shiva
Who without Shakti is Shava
Two beings of One Soul
Intertwined like Bhavani - Bhava
7.
The Kailashpati for whom
Marriage is NOT mere fun & infatuation
with a spoilt Princess
But it's about Family and Future
together with Gauri, The Goddess
8.
That Gyanmurti who
Doesn't want to just chatter and gossip
But talks about Life, Death, Earth and Heavens ... And such topics so deep
9.
The Dakshinamurthy who is
Wise with Awareness complete
Not a petty empty holder of
Some fancy degrees obsolete
10.
The Mahayogi for whom
Over-materialism is dust
As minimalist as Asutosha
Self-contentment is a must
11.
That Nataraja for whom
Art itself is Spirituality
Soulful Art with Cosmic Connect
Inspiring my own creativity
12.
The Viargi who abhors
Normal modern society
And has his own little world
Created away from all insanity
13.
The Sarvopari Premi in all ways
As enamoured as Kameshwara
Amorous channeled through Arts
Lasya, Sangeeta, Ananda Tandava
14.
Immortalising his Beloved
He showed the World how
54 Shakti Peethas he built
Each with its own Bhairav
15.
Such pleasing countenance
Like Kanta Kamalaksha
Ungroomed yet handsome
The rugged Sunderesha
16.
The Mahesha who fills
the Void left by my Father
The Dayaesha who gives me
the care of my Mother
17.
The Sarwesha who is my All
and makes me Whole
Together for life and beyond
Like Parvati - Paramesha
18.
The Avyagra who provides stability
Rock solid support as Achala
Makes me realise my essence
And sets me free of dogmas like Hara
19.
Rudra and Sadashiva
The best among men
A gentle gaint balanced
Knowing which to be when
20.
Lies low under feet of Angry Kali
Handling all seasons of Prakruti
Takes pride in wife's success
Like the messenger for Shivadooti
21.
The Shambhu who
Makes me look up and think ...
Is he really just a human?
It cannot be ... He's definitely DIVINE !
22.
Compromising on these
standards ... I will never
My Pati must definitely be ...
quite like PARAMESHWAR
23.
A Spiritual Love I seek
One like Uma - Maheshwar
Mutual Respect and Support
A Divine Relationship forever
24.
The Cosmic Law says
For every She , there is a He
So there is someone out there
Just for ME ... Just like ME
*Dear Dad, with intense love and faith
Back home, do you I summon
Come and catch a glimpse of
Your little girl grown into a woman
*A MasterChef, I'm called
But all the culinary skill is waste
What's the use of it , Dear Dad
When even a morsel from my hand, YOU can't taste
*For functions and grand occasions
Now I wear a saree
But what value holds any compliment
When YOU don't see the look I carry
*PhD scholar, I am
Creating a thesis worth a doctoral
But on many lonly nights, I grapple alone without guidance
Without OUR deep talks, habitually nocturnal
*Books, poems, music, photo edits
Art of all kinds I still explore
But whom should I share my ideas with
Without YOU around, my Creative Side gets less adore
*A smartphone now I have
With all social networking sites
But I keeping thinking how it would be
To exchange with YOU all the jokes, edits, comments or likes
*Slightly extroverted am I now
Taking deep interest in each festive celebration
But I feel a gaping void every time
That YOU aren't around to see my tasteful decoration
*You are missed a lot, Dear Dad
So far, yet I feel you near
With your memories of you, your ideals and principles
Which I will always hold dear
*Be it any situation
How much ever troublesome
I just need to remember you
To feel the warmth of your blessings wholesome
*Any tight spot
When my vision gets blurred
In my mind, it flashes
Your timely wise word
*Amist the tide of degenerate modernity
When overwhelmed with scruples
As a guiding light and boundaries
Come handy your principles
*Dear Dad, with my heart full of your memories, I promise to honour
Everything You had imbibed when I was a bud
And without even a thought of overstepping the line
To always uphold the honour of your blood
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*Being a woman as I am
Is all wrong they say
Listen to me, they teach
What's the right way
*Tumeric powder for fair skin
Suggests the all-knowing traditional trad
Na, better to use creams and bleach
Advices the snobbish ultra-modern mod
*Fully dress up and decked - trad says carry your belief on body like a doll inert
Mod dressing is exotic and catching up the latest style expert
Well, don't both deny comfort ?
*Trad says English speaking is bad, especially for a girl
Mod feels mastery over mother tongue to be backward, rural
*Trad opines that too much of education corrupts females
Mod expects one to be a know-it-all, memorizing world's all tales
*Trad favous the family above all
Mod is in favour of friendships standing tall - Both ignore the individual inner CALL
*Trad life is all full of blind beliefs and superstitions
Mod life is totally rational, devoid of emotions
*Trad demands to change lifestyle and tastes according to husband
Mod too demands constant change, but according to latest trend
*Trad overglorifies marriage and motherhood, reducing women to drudgery and reproduction
Mod overglorifies ambitious career, leading to stress and forced masculization
*Trad buries self underneath
In name of being rooted
Mod gives wings to fly
Leaving one fully uprooted
*Trad life’s fulfillment comes
Living according to Tradition
The Mod asks are you even alive, Without being up-to-date Modern
*Both say they advice out of love & care
To make their crap seem sensible
They all talk and laugh behind my back
And are Gossip, Bitchy, Judgemental
*This way or that
Caught between the Deep Sea and Devil
I decided to take cream of both sides
And filter out the husk of Evil
*A middle path I choose to create
Away from all mindless scrutiny
I'm not here to fulfill expectations
I'm born with my own Destiny
*Can't pick one side of these two
As they both are wrong
As I can Remain a Woman
And also be Strong
*With flaws and fails and virtues and wins
I am what I AM
Unmindful of incessant chatter
March to the beat of my own Drum
*Making annoying assumptions
Both are two sides of the same coin
Never really fully acknowledge and appreciate
the vastness and depth of the Feminine
*Which is why I finally turn towards the Divine
While fully retaining control of
sane own mind of mine
*Shielded away from madness, I'm my own Queen secluded in Purdah
Always cared and loved, I'm proud to be,
Daughter of Mother Goddess Durga 🪔🌺🙏
Prince Kezin let out a deep sigh as he sat on his bed with closed eyes, legs outstretched. There was a terrible pain ransacking his leg, due to a wound caused by an arrow. The pain was unbearable, but it was nothing in comparison to the turmoil ranging in his mind.
He had imagined this battle to be a wonderful opportunity to fulfil one of his long-cherished childhood dream. But a cruel twist of fate had now dashed all his hopes to the grounds.
As with any other day, the Prince had called in the medical staff to get treated for the day's injuries. The royal doctor, on close examination of a particular wound on the leg, had declared that the Prince had been hit by the vicious 'Nanjjiu' arrow.
This meant that a seemingly simple arrow, which had struck the Price, had been tipped with a kind of deadly poison. The poison had already entered the blood of the Prince and would take hardly a day to spread throughout his body and kill him. The only known antidote of this poison was available among the tribal folks, and was almost impossible to procure within a day. The tragedy was so bad that even arrangments for the funeral rites of the Prince had already started.
The Prince’s mind went numb when he tried to process all the happenings. This particular battle was very crucial, not only for his kingdom but also for himself on a personal front. This was because of the announcement made by the King just before the troops set out. The one to return to the capital with the highest number of severed heads would be awarded with the most prestigious, highly revered ancient sword, ‘The Zira'.
As with any other royal kid, winning the Sword was the most cherished dream of Prince Kezin, right from his childhood. The Sword had mythical origins, and was said to confer Divine Powers upon its owner. Owning that Sword was a matter of great honour to any royal male. The Sword changed owners at regular intervals of 25 years, and a new owner was often decided on the basis of martial prowess. Every male member of the royal family dreamt of owning that Sword. That particular Sword was as much coveted as the Royal Crown.
But now, all of his hopes and dreams had evaporated into thin air. He barely had a day to live. What was the way out? Was there even a way?
Sound of approaching footsteps jerked the Price out of his deep thoughts. He saw his stepbrother, Prince Karvarn standing in front of him. He held a tiny gold jar in one hand and a scroll in another. He had a kind of triumphant smug look on his face which made Prince Kezin suspect some foul play.
Prince Karvarn had come to the bedside of his dying stepbrother with an offer. He claimed that the tiny jar in his hand contained the antidote which he had managed to procure from tribal folks. The scroll was a declaration, singing which would mean permanent excommunication of Prince Kezin from Royalty, which, in turn, would make him unfit for competing for the Sword. Signing the letter would make him a permanent bonded slave of his stepbrother, but in return, he would get the life-saving antidote. And he didn’t have much time to think; the poison was already acting up. It was a choice between dying as a warrior with an unfulfilled dream, against living as a menial bonded slave for his stepbrother.
Caught between the Devil and the Deep Sea, Prince Kezin remembered the words of his mentor to always act like a true fierce Royal. A 'true' , 'fierce', 'ruthless' royal.
"Life brings many opportunities. Death brings none. So, ALWAYS chose Life over death."
Accordingly, Prince Kezin signed the letter and swallowed the antidote. But the first among the heaps of severed heads he carried back to the capital was that of his own stepbrother. He declared that his brother was a brave martyr who was killed by the enemy, and he had brought back his head in order to commemorate his sacrifice. Prince Karvarn was duly honoured for his sacrifice. His severed head was embalmed and set up to stand as a symbol of bravery and martyrdom. Alongside, in a grand celebration, the bravery and examplary courage of Prince Kezin was extolled and he was awarded 'The Zira'.
Prince Kezin carried no guilt in his heart. His brother had played a very lowly trick on him, which was unbecoming of a royal. He, on the other hand, had acted as a true royal by upholding the age-old principle of 'eliminating threats at the first chance'. He was a true royal, by values and deeds, and he believed, with all his heart, that he indeed was only one deserving of the Sword.
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Hyderabad Karnataka Liberation
A fictional retelling of the Liberation Movement of Hyderabad-Karnataka area, through the eyes of an enigmatic archetype with mythological connotations.
HE sneaked out of his abode and strolled contemplatively across the far-stretching sacred rocky hills of the Deccan plateau; with a number of majestic ancient temple-towers rising behind and places worth a mention in history lying strewn all around below him. Black wild boars were indigenous to this region and too common a sight, unless one had the insight to realize. But right now, the people right here were quite disturbed to notice it. There was something – a huge thing – happening among the, the visuals of which were just too gory.
HE knew it.
HE had witnessed it all.
Through all the times and ages.
This particular place had always peculiar. An oasis of sorts.
An oasis of hope and prosperity during turbulent times.
An isolated bit of chaos and trauma during otherwise happy times.
One day, it was the homeland of mighty kings and lofty philosophers.
Next day, it was the massacre ground for plundering invaders.
Flowers turned to thorns. Saviours turned to traitors.
It was the same now.
HE was witnessing the land that was once the mighty Vijayanagara under the whimsical fist of the Nizams, whose rule shut out every possible ray of light and hope
While its neighbours were busy basking in their victory and breathing in the fresh winds of freedom and independence, a huge black cloud of gloom and terror loomed over this particular area.
All because of the tyrannical Nizam, Mir Osman Ali Khan, who was one of the most powerful people of that era, wanted his own rule to continue in the region. He was not only extremely powerful but had also accumulated enormous wealth, which drew attention from not only all the corners of India, but also the world (Time Magazine). He was considered to be one amongst the wealthiest people of those times. His affluence was the reason behind his insolence.
The Nizam stubbornly refused to hand over the reins to the newly formed Indian government. On the very day (15 August 1947) that the country declared itself Independent, the Nizam had openly declared his state of Hyderabad as an independent territory, in spite of repeated requests from the national leaders of that time.
Worse still, he threatened to take advantage of the horrific Partition and make his territory a part of the newly formed nation. He had been granted a year’s time to make a final decision. Taking advantage of this, the Nizam involved in secret alliance with his ideological homeland and supplied funds for its upcoming war with India, with the idea of merging his territory with it.
The natives ran the risk of being totally alienated from their neighbours.
They would be moored on an island amongst a union of states.
They would be said to be citizens of another country.
The freedom of the neighbours had in fact, doubled the troubles of the people here. The fight that the people might put up was feared by the rulers. So, the citizens were now being treated as criminals in their own homeland. Their own home was now worse than a torture prison.
And the basis of all of this mayhem was the army of Razkars.
Razkars were common citizens, who were turned into militants by ideological impact. They were people for who their ideology was higher and dearer than anything else in the world. They feared on one, not even the Nizam. The Nizam, in fact, was a puppet ruler in their hands. They bowed only to their One True God. They were ideological extremists, who were prepared to go to any extremes and followed their holy scriptures right to the last word.
This self-formed army unleashed a regime of terror in the region. Every kind of torture imaginable was inflicted by them upon the citizens – be it dacoit, plunder, murder, kidnapping and sexual abuse of women. The very mention of this extremist organisation induced tremors in the hearts of the masses. The army, though made up of amateurs, proved to be a tough nut to crack.
HE was the witness for one more layer of history was being encrusted onto the already deep and myriad history of this place.
The wheel of time rotates. History repeats.
Same plundering. Same murders. Same threatening.
Same fleeing. Same fighting. Same resistance.
The strain of oppression and fear of alienation forced the people to revolt.
Some turn to flight mode. They fled from their places, leaving behind their ancestral lands and mansions.
The brave-hearts chose to stay back and fight. Simpleton villagers had to turn into hardened warriors overnight, in order to fight and defend their village.
Flee or die.
Cower and bow down to the undue demands of the power-wielders to earn the basic right to exist.
He also knew about the multifaceted revolt of the residents.
What started out as a petty peasant revolt had now blown out of proportion into a full-fledged civil war. The Nizam and his close ones owned about 40% of the total land in their region. Forceful bonded labour system was followed there, wherein landless people were forced to work for bare minimum maintained in the fields of their masters. Slavery too wasn’t uncommon. Heavy taxes were leaved on those who did own property. This naturally led the poorer sections of the society to protest against the brutal feudal system.
Patriotism was now a sin. Anyone found praising the idea of a united country was punished for indolence. Love towards the mother land was deemed as treachery against the ruler. Vande Matarm continued to be a cry of revolt and revolution, for long even after the British had left. The Vande Mataram movement continued here, as a cry of the people to be recognised as citizens of the newly formed nation.
The bifurcation of the nation had deeply scarred the psyche of the people. It had, in a way, dissected the very soul of India. People who had come together as one in their fight against the British had now again been divided on communal lines. And hence, not belonging to the same community as the ruler of the land was a crime, for which the only penance was to perish.
The giant black wild boar stood stoically upon the far-stretching sacred rocky hills of the Deccan plateau; with a number of majestic ancient temple-towers rising behind him and places worth a mention in history lying strewn all around below him. The places lying below were in the process of creating history, as revolt was rising in every tiny village of the region. Some of the places even created a permanent place for themselves in history by displaying exemplary resilience and bravery under the harrowingly tyrannical times.
The village of Gorta in Basavakalyana, Karnataka would go on to be known as the Jallianwala Bagh of the South. People would sing folk songs (Bhulai Pada) and install stone plaques to commemorate the bravery and sacrifice of their townsmen of yore, who were butchered mercilessly by the razkars.
Malli village in Jewargi taluk of Kalburgi district, Karnataka would be remembered as the village of patriots, who had dared to hoist the Indian National Flag right under the nose of the Nizam’s rule and face vicious persecution and massacre for it.
The Bairanpalli village of Telangana would earn the epithet of Veera Bairanpalli, in honour of its brave residents who fought the brutal razkars tooth and nail. Not only men, but even women – who were dishonoured by the razkars, put up a brave face and fought back.
The festival of Battukamma was tainted with the traumatic events of this period. The beautiful festival involved merry dancing by women of all ages, together in honour of the Mother Goddess. The tradition was unique to Andhra Pradesh, it was the pride of the local culture. But the razkars had ensured that this glorious bit of tradition was forever stained with the muck of shame in the psyche of the people. The razkars forced the women to do the same dance, but in a naked manner, as a sign of making them dancing to their tunes. This one particular tradition would henceforth be remembered in relation to the atrocities of the razkars.
Many more villages would hold the memories of the camps built in there. There were hundreds of such camps along the borderline of the Nizam region, which acted as refugee camps for the terrorized people and also as a site for assembling martial forces. A number of such camps were set up, the most important one being set in Mudagire, Bellary, Solapur, Bijapur, Dharwad, etc. – These camps were protection and military bases for the common masses who were organizing themselves and joining hands to fight back their oppression.
Guerrilla warfare was the go-to form of warfare. People made use of their crop fields as a suitable hideout to launch attacks on the advancing army of the razkars. Old desolated forts and temples also came in handy. The common masses, armed with rustic equipment and loads of courage, did everything within their power to fight back their captors.
The bear was aware of the various sources which had poured in help Organizations like the Arya Samaj and the Hindu Mahasabha had extended their helping hands to the courageous folks who were holding fort against the Nizam. A number of leaders had sprouted up, in various fronts, to lead the masses to organized agitation. The spirit to fight had risen from within.
Knowledge was the need of the hour for the uneducated masses. The Library Movement came up to cater to this need. The movement not only opened up libraries but also launched up the concept of mobile library. Books were placed alongside food and beverages in roadside eateries. Passing on knowledge in local, comprehensible language was of utmost importance. The educated people themselves rose to the occasion and created the Library Movement, for the people, by the people.
Vande Mataram was still the war-cry of the resolute masses. Singing it got students debarred from the Osmainan University. This turned the movement gain even more momentum. Vande Mataram was something which irked the Nizam Government to no end. Ramachandra Rao, who led the struggle in this direction, was to be remembered as Vande Mataram Ramachandra Rao.
Swami Ramananda Teertha of Arya Samaj was on the forefront of this fight. He was an educator and a fighter. He was the prime figure who spearheaded the liberation movement of Hyderabad, using non-violent satyagraha movements as his primary defensive measure against the violent razkars.
Then, there was Hardikar Manjappa, who was known as the Gandhi of Karnataka, led the struggle by uniting Hindus irrespective of castes and popularising khadi as a symbol of revolt.
Even tribals weren’t left behind. The Gond tribe took an active part and liberated 12 villages from the clutches of the Nizam’s feudalism. Their leader, Komaram Bhim Gaaru was the mastermind behind the guerrilla warfare and self-sustenance during the fight.
HE observed that, just like the land which held tons of iron, but in the form of ore; the people of the land were brave, no doubt, but they were still amateur and inorganized, which forced them to remain in defence mode.
There was the need of offensive attack, of attacking the very roots and overthrowing the Nizam rule once for all.
Then it happened!
HE had observed that the past 5 days of the struggle have been different. There was a change, a drastic change and the entire atmosphere of the struggle had changed overnight.
Operation Polo – it was called. The operation was a direct police action against the razkars.
There was a man leading them.
He was the man who had addressed the Nizam rule as cancer.
The one leader who dared to brush aside defensive and deferential tactics and launched a straightforward attack at the razkars.
Who was he?
The land of iron ores demanded nerve of pure iron.
And that exactly what he was!
The land of iron ores was saved by the Iron Man of India.
The Iron Man of India … Sardar Vallabhai Patel. The first … Minister of Independent India.
The date was 17 September 1948.
It was the day when ‘a cancerous tumour in the belly of India’ was removed.
The day when the mighty Nizam of Hyderabad bowed down his head in surrender.
The day when the Hyderabad State breathed freely.
The day when its citizens experienced the taste of freedom for the first time.
The aristocrats of Hyderabad fled.
The Nizam surrendered to the Nation.
Hyderabad was now officially a part of the Indian State.
Rising his snort high into the air, the giant boar let out an echoing triumphant roar, which revibrated throughout the rocky hills. Motherland was safe again. The demons had been slayed and the masses drowning in misery had been uplifted. Varaha then disappeared back into the sacred hills, heading towards the ringing bells of his temple.
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When I'm clouded
By confusion, fear or Doubt
I turn to the Divine Crystal Ball
To reveal the answers sought
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Crowned with Holy heavenly halo
Glows with soft celestial grace
Its mere sight evokes introspection
Into its mythical depths I gaze
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Fogggy obscured sometimes
For it to clear do I patiently wait
And mirroring our earthly lives
Goes through phrases like our Fate
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Formations visible on it
Activates my inner clairvoyant
Mind quientens up to decipher
The upcoming worries and enjoyment
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Sometimes a silent whisper
Sometimes a intutive thought
The way differs everytime
But the message is right brought
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It lies high up there ...
The sacred otherworld sphere
The doorway to higher realms
Allures me to fly away from here
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It lights up The Dark
The silent black Night
Illuminates All Mysteries
All psychic powers ignite
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Magnatising charm it holds
It rises powerful waves
It alchemises everything
Putting light into the deepest caves
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The intoxicating immortal
The Oracle, Primeval Rune
The core of all Mystical
It's mundanely called the Moon
UNTOUCHABLE 🌸
Characters : Virmati (Difficult Daughters), Rosie (The Guide by R.K. Narayan), Priyanka, Esha, Radhika (One Night at a Call Centre by Chetan Bhagat)
Virmati’s eyes turned all around the café as she sat sipping coffee. She was waiting for her friends - four of them - who were her soul sisters. Though Virmati had tons of friends in her personal and professional circle, the bond she shared with these four women was unique – it was more soulful. It was not just blood-bound or professional. It was more of matching wavelengths - born out of shared ideologies and experiences.
All of them (including Virmati) were “modern, educated” Indian women, who were independent and opiniated. This was something which was totally radical in Indian society, and had therefore alienated these women from the rest of the society (including their own families). Besides ideology, bitter experiences due to patriarchy was another thing which these women shared in common. The lives (both personal and professional) of each of these women had been hounded by patriarchy. While this was a common thing for almost all Indian women, what set these five women apart was that they chose to rise above it and took their own lives into their own hands and decided to work out their own destinies.
Rosie, who happened to be one of Virmati’s oldest friend, was not even an Indian. She was the wife of a British archeologist, Marco. Her “educated” British husband had bound her up in unseen chains; he had forbidden her from following her passion of dance. However, she later found an ally in Raju, who helped her pursue her passion. But this very ‘ally’ turned out to be a nuisance later on, when he wanted to make as much money as possible from her dance performances. He even started to assume that he had control over Rosie, as he had given her a second chance at life. Thankfully, Rosie had ditched him and was now leading an independent life.
“Poor Rosie, she just jumped from the Devil to the Deep Sea.” mused Virmati. She would relate a lot to Rosie, as she herself had been foolish enough to fall in love with a (already married) man, believing that he would help her follow her dreams.
“Depending on any man to fulfill our dreams is never a good idea, no matter how-much-ever friendly he seems. It’s always best for women to be self-reliant.”
Virmati had decided to impart this very piece of wisdom to her three young friends: Priyanka, Esha and Radhika. All three of them were quite young and it was only natural for them to seek male partners. Two of them – Priyanka and Esha were already dating, while Radhika was a recent divorcee.
All the three girls were quite smart and determined. They also had significant dreams – which Virmati feared would go haywire if they fell in ‘love’ and started to depend on their man to “support” them.
The three of them were former colleagues at a call center. A strange call one night had changed their destinies forever, when they decided to face the battles of their life upfront and live out their own dreams. Each had already been disowned by their families – but they lived together and supported each other, giving strength and encouragement. Their sense of solidarity and sisterhood had impressed Virmati a lot, and she had taken the three into her guardianship – becoming their matriarch.
Priyanka had been a victim of her mother’s internalized misogyny, just like Virmati. She had to constantly put up with her mother’s double standards at home and had to even fight off a forced arranged marriage, which she had been coerced to agree to by her manipulative mother. Priyanka had discovered that her would-be husband was a spineless momma’s boy, who had lied to her and was trying to trap her by flaunting his wealth and riches. Her mother had continued her scheming drama and had faked three heart attack when Priyanka called off the alliance, but Priyanka stayed strong and didn’t bow down to her mother. This had made Priyanka’s relations with her family turn sour. Virmati would easily relate to her; Priyanka was as much a ‘difficult daughter’ as she herself had been. Priyanka had now quit working and had gone back to study B.Ed. (with her own money), as she dreamt of opening a nursery playschool. She had also gone back to dating her ex-boyfriend Shyam. He was her colleague and the two of them had dated for several years, until Priyanka’s nosy mother caused disturbances in their relationships, ultimately leading to their breakup. The two of them had now prioritized their career and were working hard to build up a stable career before entering into a stable relationship (marriage).
Esha had the worst experiences of all in the group. She had modelling aspirations, which had led to her being sexually harassed. She had once “sinned” i.e., had agreed to be used as a sex-object by a creepy old man who promised her modelling chances. That had caused her a lot of guilt, shame and trauma. She was now slowly recovering, helped by her friends (her family had already disowned her because of her modelling dreams). She was working for an NGO and was also dating Varun, her colleague from the call center. He was the same guy who had abused and called her names for her "sin”. He had, of course, apologized, but Esha’s choice of dating him was not something Virmati approved of. Virmati also hoped that Esha doesn’t give up on her modelling aspirations due to fear of societal judgment and the sexist setup of the field - but would continue to pursue her passion, fighting every hurdle that came her way.
Radhika’s story was that of a typical modern Indian girl. Fell in love in college - got married against parents’ wish - became a slave – harassed by husband and in laws – blinded in love - discovers she is being cheated upon - divorce. She was now depressed, with her confidence and self-esteem shattered. Realizing that her “love” held little value in the eyes of her man was itself a huge blow for her. And her parents were rubbing salt to her wounds, by repeatedly pointing out her “mistake” of not obeying them. She had no other source of emotional comfort now, except her friends. Her husband had made several attempts to cajole her (as he wanted a maid for his family), but Radhika had toughened herself up and didn’t heed his pleas. Her friends were helping her in healing her wounds, even as she continued to work at the call center to financially support herself.
Virmati let out a deep breath as she sat pondering over the lives of her friends. She took a sip of her hot coffee, as she sat waiting for her friends.